Finding out that you are pregnant is an exciting time but it is also a stressful time as a new addition to the family means lots of changes. The new addition will also come with a recommended list of “essential” items that just seems to get longer and longer as time goes on. Having had two children I learnt the hard way.
For Elizabeth, I read all the books and magazines and I used one of these tick lists to fill my house full of everything I could possibly have needed. I had a baby first aid kit, more bottles than she could have used in a week, baby monitors in every room and some special nappy disposal system that was described to be the ultimate must-have addition to a nursery. By the time I had Alison, I had come to the realisation that most of it was still unused and taking up precious space.
So here are my top tips for what essentials to buy for your baby. Anything else is a luxury but not necessary.
Somewhere to sleep
Forget Moses Baskets and Cribs all you really need is a cot or even better a cot bed. I mean you are going to have one anyway so why not just start off using that. Most Moses baskets and Cribs are only big enough for the first month or so anyway so it seems like a bit of a waste. I would also look at baby sleeping bags or swaddle blankets over normal blankets as this will keep your baby warm all night.
Cots come in all shapes, sizes and prices so do your research and find one that you love. Internet research can help you find a really good deal.
Something to eat
Something to wear
Something to travel in
If you have a car then a car seat is essential, look for one that will last you a while and is suitable from birth to four years. These usually have a tilting facility that is fabulous even as the kids get older and it can be placed forwards or backwards in the car.
You may also want a pushchair although many people use wraps or baby carriers. I loved my Moby wrap when the girls were young and hardly ever used the pushchair in the early days. Really think about what you want from a pushchair and do your research reading lots of reviews to see what others thought about it too. I would then recommend heading into a showroom to have a play with them.
So there you have it my Essential Baby list with a few hints and tips along the way. Do you think I have missed a real essential? Is there something you couldn’t have been without?